Meet again, if you both want to.

The day after the event, you see the faces from the evening. If you both want to meet again, you find out at 8 pm. If not, nobody finds out.

Example of the afterparty of Neon Disco at Der Komet, an invented sample host: the faces from the evening, a countdown to 8 pm and up to five wishes

Sound familiar?

A good conversation at the bar. A smile at the cooking class. Then the evening is over, and asking for a number feels too pushy.

before is the second chance you never had.

I host events

How it works.

  1. At night

    Check in.

    You scan the QR code at the door. No app. If you like, you take a selfie.

    Three guests arrive cheering at the entrance of Der Komet, one scans the poster with the QR code
  2. 10:00

    Afterparty.

    The day after. If you shared a selfie, you see everyone who shared one and pick up to five people. Nobody learns anything until 8 pm.

  3. 20:00

    Meet again.

    Everyone finds out at the same time. If it's mutual, your chat opens. If not, nobody finds out, so nobody gets turned down.

  4. After

    The selfies disappear.

    Except in the chat of two people who both wanted to meet again. And at the next evening you might already see each other again.

Example of the selfie step, with the choice to continue without a photoExample of the afterparty of Neon Disco at Der Komet, an invented sample host: the faces from the evening, a countdown to 8 pm and up to five wishesExample of the moment at 8 pm when both want to meet againExample of a chat that opened because both wanted to meet again

You are safe here, because you stay in control.

Only people who were there.

You only see people who were really there that evening.

No rejections.

A wish that isn't returned stays invisible. Nobody ever learns about it.

Report and block.

With one tap, right from the chat.

No dating profile.

No swiping, no ratings. And the host never sees who wants to see whom again.

Your favourite event doesn't have before yet?

Send the invite to the host. Setup is quick, and just like that, nobody has to lose track of anyone.

The afterparty opens after your event

When you check in at an event powered by before, you get the link by email, no later than 24 hours after it ends.

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